Whether you're ready to apply, want to start with the audit, or have a question, here's how to take the next step.
If you've identified your pattern and you're ready to do something about it, the Intensive is the next step. Four weeks, eight sessions, one-on-one, built around your specific pattern. Starts with a short application and an Intensive Consultation to confirm fit before anything else happens.
Remote only • Scheduled around your life • $1,800 for the full engagement
If you're not yet sure which pattern is driving the distance, the audit is the clearest first step. It takes less than 5 minutes, it's free, and your results appear immediately. Most men who apply for the Intensive have taken it first.
Free • Less than 5 minutes • Private • Instant results
For professional collaboration, speaking inquiries, or general questions, use the form below. Please note that I'm not able to offer coaching or relationship advice by email.
Whether you're ready to apply, want to start with the audit, or have a question, here's how to take the next step.
If you've identified your pattern and you're ready to do something about it, the Intensive is the next step. Four weeks, eight sessions, one-on-one, built around your specific pattern. Starts with a short application and an Intensive Consultation to confirm fit before anything else happens.
Remote only • Scheduled around your life • $1,800 for the full engagement
If you're not yet sure which pattern is driving the distance, the audit is the clearest first step. It takes less than 5 minutes, it's free, and your results appear immediately. Most men who apply for the Intensive have taken it first.
Free • Less than 5 minutes • Private • Instant results
For professional collaboration, speaking inquiries, or general questions, use the form below. Please note that I'm not able to offer coaching or relationship advice by email.
This work is for education and coaching, not therapy or crisis support.
If you are experiencing a mental health emergency, please contact 988 (Suicide and Crisis Lifeline) or your local emergency services.
This work is for education and coaching, not therapy or crisis support.
If you are experiencing a mental health emergency, please contact 988 (Suicide and Crisis Lifeline) or your local emergency services.
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